Balance June 2018 - 27
RETRO SOUL
I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY
PEOPLE HAVE LOST THE CONCEPT
OF LIVING HARMONIOUSLY WITH
THOSE WHO ARE DIFFERENT
If short on anecdote, the experience at least
helped form her philosophy.
"In the bigger tricks, the magician just waves his
arms around and you do everything," she reflects
with a smile. "It's a bit like this patriarchal society we
live in, isn't it? Men run the world waving their arms
around and women do the work."
For the past seven years she has been in therapy.
"I feel it's the best thing that's ever happened to
me," she remarks with typical candour. "I attribute
so much of my contentment to it actually. And my
relationship with my mum is one of the things I've
explored a lot with my therapist."
MUM'S THE WORD
SUGAR*
WELLBEING
Of late, this relationship has changed as Paloma
gave birth to her first child some 18 months ago. She
excited tabloid speculation when it was reported
that she was raising her child to be gender neutral.
Except she didn't really say that. What she said was
that she wasn't going to let people know anything
about the identity of her child, including its gender.
Is it hard to maintain this?
"It's really hard to keep calling it my baby or the
kid," she admits. "It's just that I don't think celebrity
is a very healthy environment for a child. At the
moment my child is showing all the signs of being
a very well-balanced individual and I don't want to
jeopardise that. I don't want to restrict my child's
future by everybody knowing who their mum is."
The birth - 20-hour labour followed by emergency
C-section - sounds grim, but she seems to have
thoroughly embraced motherhood. What one piece of
advice would she give new mothers?
"It would be bottle and breast feed from day one so
that you buy yourself a little bit of time," she replies
without hesitation. "Express if you have to. But it's
very easy to lose yourself. You can become a machine
that's dutiful all the time. And that's not good for your
child. It has an upside of course. Like with my hair,
if that had happened pre-child I would have had a
complete meltdown, but now I can't. I've got to get
home, make my child's dinner, get them to bed and
then only when you sit down you think, 'Oh shit'. And
I know I've got to look after the baby again tomorrow.
So I think oh well, I might not have any hair but at
least I'm still someone's mum." B
Paloma Faith 'The Architect Summer Tour' from June -
September. For more info, visit palomafaith.com
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